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ayanesu ca sarvesu

yatha-bhagam avasthitah

bhismam evabhiraksantu

bhavantah sarva eva hi

All of you must now give full support to Grandfather Bhisma, as you stand at your respective strategic points of entrance into the phalanx of the army.

Lecture

We think that happiness is calmness. But this is a material understanding of happiness. Now I will tell you something you need to understand in the right way: spiritual life is full of anxiety and worries!!! There is no doubt that people who practice self-development also have worries, but these worries are spiritual, they are special. Spiritual worries are good for us, they help us. But, material worries bring us only harm. Material worries are an ulcer attack, but spiritual worries are an attack of love. We are afraid of worries, but love means worrying about those, who are our responsibility.

Any communication creates worries, because in each case we need to pay special attention to people. If we are not worried about finding a special approach to each person, all our communication becomes one big insult. There are several universal laws, which allow us to find an approach to each person rather easily and comfortably. In standard communication, it is enough to just respect each other. This is the best method of communication. Respect makes our hearts stronger and allows us to have a positive exchange with the other person. Friends don't share garbage; they treat each other to cakes and pies.

To do this, we need to understand one simple, but important idea: those, who are around us are not our servants, they are the servants of God. This means that our relationship with other people can only be friendly. Only a guru (spiritual master) can be hard and harsh, because he can be as soft as a rose at the same time. But, let's first learn how to be like roses.

Every person wants to be in the company of friends, not in a company of people, who expose all his imperfections. When everyone is friendly, even words that expose flaws won't sound insulting. In this case, these words will cause the desire to change and become better. Without respect, a person will want to build his own separate world, create his own separate family, make up his own philosophy, and buy himself his own dog...

This drives us away from the right path, which has been made for us a long time ago. Practically no changes have taken place in our perception of the world, there is no news in philosophy because this is not possible. The whole world is just a big frying pan. The sun is the flame, the days and nights are the firewood, the months and years are the serving spoon, and time is the cook itself, who stirs us, so that we are cooked evenly on each side. This cook alternates the white and black sides of our life, so that we become gray... This was said by Yudhistira on this battlefield 5,000 thousand years ago. Nothing new was said about this ever since. The fire on this kitchen is still burning...

Proverb

Once a person was seen sleeping by the road. He acted rather strangely: he sometimes laughed, and sometimes became serious.He gestured strangely, and then started laughing again. The people, who were passing him, came closer and asked:

"Mulla, what is so funny?"

"Funny stories," he answered. "I am telling myself funny stories."

The passer-bys were surprised. One of them asked:

"From time to time, you become serious. Why?"

"This happens, when I tell a story that I have already heard."

Every person has to be fried evenly, then he is served to the taster, Yamaraj - the supreme judge of this world. He will ask us only one question, which we have to know the answer to. He will ask us: "Who are you?" If we answer "My name is Mr. John Smith, I am a man, I died at the age of 78. All my life I worked at the plant. I have been married and divorced three times. I thought democracy will solve all our problems." Such an answer means we will once again have to go through all the circles of hell in this world, which seems like heaven at first.

Now we will find out, what it is we have to say to pass this test. This knowledge is the secret of secrets, because it solves the most important problem of our life - the problem of death. Memorize this by heart. It is useless to write it down, because no one will allow us to take a notebook or computer with us. We won't be able to write it down on our hand either - our hand will be buried in the earth. Memorize and remember the right answer. When death asks you, who you are, you need to answer: "I AM THE SERVANT OF GOD!" This is the password, and it still works.

This state is called "bhava". It is the sum total of everything we have thought about in our life. Therefore, our last thought and our answer to the question will be the thing we thought about most during our life. A person thinks that when death comes, he will remember the right thing, but God warns us that if we cannot think about Him in a calm state of mind, how will we be able to do this when pain, fear, and confusion come?

Therefore, the time has come to think about the Absolute Truth. Yes, it might seem like we are just pretending to be interested in the Absolute Truth, but since it is God we are pretending to think about, this pretence becomes completely purifying. Even if you are in the shower and are just pretending to be washing, water will still do its job. God is not the one, who helps us in life, he is the one, who helps us at the time of death. He will surely help us, if we at least pretended to think about Him our whole life...

Thinking about God is the price we have to pay to meet Him. This is what defines a person's true development. The higher his goal is, the higher his consciousness is.

Proverb

Once, a farmer's donkey dropped into a well. While the famer thought about what he should do, the poor animal cried for several hours. After a while, the farmer made a decision. He decided that the donkey was too old, and the well needed to be closed anyway. It wasn't worth the time and effort to pull the old donkey out of the well. He called all his neibours to help him bury the well. Everyone took their shovels and started digging and throwing soil into the well.

The donkey understood what was happening right away and made a terrible squealing sound. Then, to everyone's surprise, he became quiet. After some time, the farmer decided to check on the donkey. He was amazed at what he saw when he looked down. After a some soil landed on his back, the donkey did something that was hard to believe. He shook off the soil and stepped on the new hill that was formed by it.

While the farmer's neibours continued to throw soil into the well, each time the animal shook it off and stepped onto the newly thrown soil. Very soon, everyone was amazed to see that the donkey was at the top of the well. He jumped over the edge of the well and ran away as fast as he could!

In life we meet many different tests and difficulties. Moreover, they will come one after the other; again and again they will throw soil of difficulties on us. However, if we won't stop and give up, we will be able to climb out of any well - even the deepest one.

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